She is fully mature both physically and spiritually. The two of them are so close that it is impossible for anything to separate their hearts from each other. She has learned to always bring her husband peace and contentment. She is able to teach other young women about true love for she has lived it to the fullest.
Then to all the lovers in the various gardens she says,
“O you who dwell in the gardens, with companions listening for your voice; let me hear it.”
“Let me hear it” in the Hebrew is in the imperative. Meaning that this is more of a command, coming from the mature bride who is the queen of Israel.
So, you have lots of couples in the gardens. It doesn’t say if they are married or not, so I assume there is a variety of them. Some courting, some engage, some married, and some married for a long time. All the couples have friends or companions listening to hear what the lovers have to say.
These close friends or companions and the mature bride want to hear what they have on their minds and in her heart. Of course, it is Love. A specific kind of love. A longing. A deep intense longing for the one they love.
Those lovers dwelling in the gardens are physically close with varying degrees of mental, emotional and spiritual closeness to the one they love called the “beloved” in the text.
Love is sparking a flame above all others in all their hearts so with one voice they proclaim their love, desire and longing to have a closer relationship with their “beloved“.
“Turn my beloved and be like a gazelle on the spiced top mountains.” Solomon’s Song of Songs 8:13
The mountains represent the emotional highs in a love relationship on their wedding night. But also, in another context the mountains represent great heart or spiritual difficulties that hinder a blossoming relationship. So, which one is it?
The mountains are spiced. So as he uses his skill and wisdom to overcome each mountain, at the top is something precious, valluable and sweet for him to enjoy.
The spices represent the benefits or fruits of a stricter union of heart that comes with each mountain conquered. I don’t know about you but my heart beats faster as I think of this! Oh, how beautiful this is!
Here you have a woman wanting a closer relationship with her man. She wants him to use Biblical wisdom and skill to overcome what feels like to her to be a huge mountain. If he can skillfully do his part like a gazelle on the mountain tops, then there will spiced benefits of a stricter union of hearts for him to enjoy. A fuller, sweeter possession of her. And all she wants is him. So, as he loves her over and over again, she gets a fuller sweeter possession of him, her all in all.
The lovers feel as if beloved is to far off. Emotional, mentally and spiritually. Therefore, they say “Turn”. Even though they are physically close in the gardens.
Paraphrased. Although they speak collectively, I will paraphrase what one woman may be saying of her man that is physically close but not close enough in a heart to heart manner.
“Oh, my beloved husband whom I love and am longing for. Even though we are close physically and in love, the distance of your heart from mine seems too far for me to bare. Please use your skill and wisdom to overcome what feels like a huge mountain separating you from me.”
Getting closer never ends! Neither does the longing for more. Neither here on earth nor in heaven. Our happiness, love and stricter union with those we love will forever increase. So, at the end of the love Song, we get a better idea of love, specifically that loves strength to unite continues and so does its desire and longing to be closer. The soul finds peace and rest yet desires and longs for a stricter, happier and closer union.
The harmony and closeness of the relationship of the bride and bridegroom in the Love Song was so close that they were heart to heart completely in one sense like that of the function, happiness and harmony of the mind and body. Yet once they were heart to heart in peace and harmony, she still longed for an even stricter union. How do you word that idea? Perfect and happy yet longing to be closer.
Happy and feeling good but still wanting to feel even more of the same. Yet in Heaven this love sickness doesn’t come with pain. The longing for more here on earth is usually desired when not really feeling it or when in pain due to some sense of separation from our loved ones.
Not everyone in the garden was at a level of contentment where no other pleasure is sought outside the relationship. But for those who were so tight that nothing could separate their hearts for they were one, they wanted a stricter union, an even closer relationship.
One of the main points here is that men ought not to ever stop doing whatever it takes and overcoming whatever mountain necessary in order for her to be happier and closer to him.
Note, that I believe that for those just starting a relationship there may be some real big mountains needing to be overcome. And less and less of those as time goes by. Yet, for those who are mentally, emotionally and spiritually mature and close, the fire only burns hotter and hotter! Loves flame never stop burning brighter and hotter, therefore no level of closeness is ever enough. As the flame burns hotter so also the longing for a closer more intimate relationship. The soul has a capacity to forever get enlarged. The psalmist says, “enlarge my heart” that I may love more. The heart can forever get bigger with love! As the heart gets enlarged with a greater understanding of the height, depth, length and breadth of love so also the union of hearts gets stricter and the fruits of such a union sweeter!!!!
Let me put it this way. All believers. The Bride of Jesus Christ. In her glorified body and soul will be perfect and sinless yet the strictness of the union of her heart with Christ’s will forever grow closer. She will want a closer union but not be unhappy. The Bride of Jesus will be perfectly happy being where He is and having her heart sealed to his yet the heart is capable of so much more.
The Father and Son have an infinitely strict union and are One. In John 17 Jesus prayed to the Father that He wanted those whom He died for to be “one as We are one.” Meaning, in heaven, we will forever get closer to the Father through the Son and never in reality get to that infinitely strict union, except in the Father’s eyes! The Father sees the Bride and His Son as one, one like the Father and Son are one. Yet, I only say like. Like the Father and Son are one. Not in every way and manner like the Father and Son but forever getting closer to that oneness but never will there come a point in time that the level of closeness stops.
Knowledge of God in the mind increases. Yes. Part of the heart is the mind. As the mind gets more knowledge of God the heart is enlarged in that sense. The heart can never stop gaining more knowledge of God. As the knowledge of God increases so does the closeness of the relationship.
Therefore, she could always grow in the knowledge of God even when the knowledge of her beloved is complete. So, the closeness of the relationship will still increase not due to her knowing her earthly husband better but by growing in the knowledge of God. This growth in the grace and knowledge of God will increase her love to God and her husband, thus drawing her closer to both God and her husband forever.
Jonathan Edwards explains it this way.
Our acceptance with the Father is based on the infinitely strict union of the Son of God to us, His Bride, before the world began. The Son’s Love to the sinful Bride that the Father gave Him is the same Love the Father has to His Son. This Love perfectly unites those in that relationship so that they are considered as one. JE
All of Solomon’s people he was shepherding closer to God and each other are really close to Solomon, their Messiah and King. They love him and obey him and his love to them is more delightful than wine, therefore worthy of greater praise. Yet however close they are to their king of peace they desire to be closer and since a spark of love has just happened, Solomon feels so far away and they desire to be even closer to their king.
Not only do the people of Israel want to have a closer relationship with their glorious yet humble and wise king. His wife has a burning desire for him as well. Even thought they are side by side and heart to heart she feels pain. She has a cruel and painful feeling in her heart. It’s a burning holy jealousy to be even closer to him. When love sparks no level of closeness is good enough. When love sparks the desire to get closer increases. When love sparks the feeling is as if the husband though very close is not close enough. When love sparks a huge holy flame she feels as if he could be forsaking her and getting further away even though he is not. Though this is what she feels. It is cruel like hell fire. She can’t bear the thought of him going further away from her so she says, “Turn…” “Turn my beloved...”
She asks her beloved husband to show his love to her and use great skill like a gazelle and draw closer ever closer to her.
By now the land of Israel is flourishing and the mountain tops have precious spices on them. Gazelles are skillfully navigating quite easily and quickly their way along the high mountains. So in her heart is a feeling as if he is far away, as if his heart is to far from hers because she had a spark of love that increased her desire and affection for him. Since she has now a greater love for him she wants to feel him closer than ever before.
He hasn’t and isn’t going anywhere and what she feels on the inside along with every other holy person in Israel is that Solomon is not close enough to them. Though united in every way their still is room to get closer to their Messiah and king of peace.
Similar to what heaven will be like between Jesus Christ our Messiah, Savior, King Of Kings and Beloved above all other’s.
We will forever desire to be closer to Jesus and will always be fully satisfied in Him. He will always be our all in all!!
The last verse of Solomon’s greatest love poem he ever wrote gives us a glimpse into what we will be feeling in heaven yet without the pain or cruel feeling of feeling as if Jesus was to far away. We will desire Him and we will love him but desire will forever increase without pain of feeling separated for we will be perfectly united to him without sin in our hearts.
The point is that true love never ends!
She forever keeps loving him more and he forever keeps loving her more.
The intensity of their love for each other keeps growing forever!
Do you love her now more than before and can prove it by your words and actions?
Do you love him more now than ever before and can prove it by the way you feel causes you to do even more and better for him who loves you and gave himself to you!?
True Love Never Stops Sparking Greater Sparks!
Saved in 2000 at age 27. Nearly immediately I fell in love with the Song and grew very fast the first two years memorizing large portions of scripture purifying my mind the started chewing on meat to soon and struggled for 12 years and Christ has me on track like always but I just took the long way around and now I love leading others closer to Christ by seeing His love reflected in Solomons love for an enemy slave girl.
I have experienced God's love to me in the Song in ways that words can't express. There are many portion of the Word where she experiences extra ordinary outpouring of the Holy Spirit of God. If you have a burning desire for a close intimate relationship with God by experiencing His Love to you over and over again at greater and greater heights, depths, lengths and breaths then The Song of Songs is where you need to be.
I can help you with this process of Growing in the experience of God's love. As of 7-23-16 I have experienced everything prior to chapter 8. The Song of Song is progressive in experience. Meaning that if you are mature then you can experience the joys and extraordinary outpourings of God's Love shed abroad in your heart.
If you are not so mature then the delights in the first chapter of the Song will satisfy your thirst for experiencing the Love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Many Christian are living in sin because they do not know how to experience God's love and get hooked on Loving Him. It feels good to be loved and to love Him. His burden is not heavy and His yoke is light, Jesus said in Matt. 10:28
I believe God wants to use me to help beautify His Bride through the Song of Solomon.
If you see the book literally you will not understand nor grasp the Love God has for you. If you see the book and the verses in it relating to Christ's love to you then I would love to show you how to experience this Love to the fullest. I will pray for you daily and guide you every step of the way.
16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
I grew up going to church but was a hypocrite. I lived my life how I chose but went to church on Sunday because my family went.
Mom and Dad divorced when I was about 5.
About this time I was sexually abused by "Bob" a made up name. This incident changed my life for the worst. I had no clue how to deal with it.
As I got older I grew in my hatred for Bob. I didn't blame anyone of my family because I was to young to know any better. Some of what happened during the abuse was in a bathroom. So overtime I would use the bathroom and look at my private parts that night would replay in my mind. My hatred for Bob would continue to grow each time.
Now I know this only happened to me one night. I can't image the pain other's go through who have had this happen to them over and over. Even as I write this now I cry with many tears for those hurting. God love you even though you may not know it or feel it. Go to Him in your time of need.
I was a really bad teenager. I only cared about myself and not even my family. I always came first in my mind. Even at the expense of hurting others. I was growing in my hatred for God by now.
I was going to church and was learned that God was in control. I thought well, if God was in control then He must have let me be sexually abused. I didn't understand this, How could a good and loving God allow this. I hated Him for it. My hatred for Bob grew as well. I was still using the bathroom and memories kept coming back. My heart grew even harder for Bob and God. As far as I was concerned God would have nothing to do with my life so I lived even worse. I thought I would be in jail or dead and I really didn't care, I thought it could be much worse than reliving your painful past over and over again. Little did I know that God's plan later would be to use these events to give me a burning passion for the closest most intimate love relationship with Himself through Christ mainly through the love poem in the Song of Songs in the Bible.
I remember hating Bob so much that the only thing that would relieve my pain was actually thinking he would suffer forever for what he did. I grew so much in my hatred for him that I had to continue to think that he would get even worse than what I imaged before. After some time I would only be relieved of hatred for him unless I thought he would burn in a hotter and hotter hell for all the suffering he put me through.
I never told my mom or family what happened, although I think some of them knew something had happened.
I grew up quite rebellious and even went to jail at the age of 20. I was living the fast life pursuing all my sinful desires and wanting more. It never seemed to be enough. I was quite happy in my sin but I just wanted more of it.
I lived life thinking I would die at a young age, riding motorcycle and living on the edge put me in the hospital many times and I should have been dead.
California at age 26.
I moved to California for a job opportunity at the age of 27. While trying to figure out what radio stations to program in my car, I ran across a RC Sproul talking about "people who have the faith that saves and people who only say that have faith" only the people who have the faith that saves will go to heaven. I thought "I don't think I have the faith that saves because my life was so bad." I searched the scriptures to try to get this faith. I found a church and thought people there could help me get this faith that saves. All along God kept showing me how sinful I was and that I deserved punishment from Him for living my life hating Him.
One weekend I read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John desperately trying to find out how to get this faith that saves. By now I knew that if you had the faith that saves that Jesus would be saving you from a life of sin. I still liked my sin and Jesus sure wasn't saving me from a life of sin, so I rightly concluded that I didn't have the faith that saves.
By the time I got to John, I saw "believe" everywhere. John 3:16 and other verses and wow the whole book was written so that you may believe. John 20:31 "these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name." So at night I would pray "I believe Jesus died for me, I believe, I believe. This was just an intellectual belief. I knew that in history and the Bible that Jesus died for everyone, so I believed it. But this belief did not change my life.
I would go on night after night saying the same prayer only to wake up the next day wanting to fulfill my sinful desires. The prayer wasn't working so I started to word it different each time hoping some prayer would work. After about 2 weeks of this I was fed up with it all, nothing was happening. I still was living in my sin and wanted more of it. A Christian hates their sin and does something about it, and certainly they don't continue to make plans to sin. The prayers weren't working so I gave up. I thought to myself "God, I tried with all my might, I searched the Scriptures, went to church, read the Bible and prayed all to no avail. If Im going to be saved your going to have to do it because I tried."
So I quit praying but still the Bible kept calling me so I read more. 3 Days later I was laying in a tanning bed and God convicted me really hard that I had offended Him by the life I was living. I was so scared of God, where could I run. You can't hide from God. It seemed like forever that I was under these terrors of being punished by a Holy Angry God. This lasted about 10 minutes then this is how I understood it. God let me understand that all that anger that He had for me for all my sin should come my way but He had poured that anger out on Jesus 2,000 years ago. I immediately started weeping an couldn't stop for about 20 minutes. All the sins that I could think of I confessed for that 20 minutes one after another after another, I was so sorrowful and grieved it physically hurt inside.
After I stopped crying I thought that was the weirdest thing that ever happened. I walked out of the tanning salon and stood outside and everything seemed so beautiful, the tree's, the birds, even the air seemed pleasant. Now I was really wondering what was going on.
I pondered all of this as I drove to work that day. I brought my Bible to work and was thinking what am I doing, I want to take my Bible to work so I can read it. As soon as I got to work I started reading my Bible. I couldn't believe what I was reading!! It all was so wonderful. It felt so good to just read my Bible. My client showed up and as I was training them the only thing I could think about was getting back to my Bible. I read all night and slept about 2 hours and was reading again.
I had sinful things in my apartment and I rounded everything evil up and threw it in the garbage. It was weird I was thinking but it felt good so I left it all in the garbage. I called my girlfriend to break it up and she thought I had another girl, I said no, I just think this is wrong we shouldn't be sleeping together. She didn't understand so I told her I was a Christian now and she still thought I had another girlfriend. She said "Im glad your a Christian, so am I" I thought to myself, "I have a strong conviction that sleeping together is wrong and she thought it was okay" I wondered how she could think that. Anyway we broke up.
I kept reading my bible and repenting, there was so much to repent of and I had lived a very sinful life. I was a thief for some part of my life and all the people I stole from kept coming to mind. I owed so much money. I was instantly in debt about $80,000. As I could I paid them back. As of 7-18-2016 I still owe about $25,000 but it sure is a joy to be paying them back.
The first week of being saved a car just about ran me over, they hit me but I wasn't hurt at all. The guy in the car felt so bad. I just looked at him and said "God bless you and have a great day, I am okay" smiled at him and moved on. Now I was really wondering what was going on because I normally would have cussed him out left and right and instead of cussing I blessed him. That was so weird. But again it felt good. I learned to do good by what my conscience told me was good and that it felt good. I got hooked on this feeling good by doing good and did it more often.
About two weeks after being saved I thought of Bob. I immediately prayed for him, something like "Lord help him.." then I stopped praying and said out loud "What am I doing?" I'm praying for a man that I hated my whole life, but it feels good and right, so I did it again. I stopped again midway in the prayer and started pacing around. I was trying to make sense of what was going on and couldn't figure it out. But again it made me happy to pray for him so I did. Bob would often come to mind when I went to the bathroom and each time I would pray for Him. The more I did this the less weird it got. And the greater my love grew for him.
I started memorizing large portions of scripture and this was wonderful because it felt like the words were cleaning my mind and as Proverbs 2:10 "For wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul." I wanted more and more of this pleasantness. So I memorized even more and the joy got more and more.
Then this life changing advice came:
A friend from church told me to find a book of the Bible and really understand it. Read through the Bible and pick one and read it over and over and study it and really get it. So I started in Genesis and read through. When I got to Proverbs I really liked it so I thought that would be the book. I started by memorizing all of Proverbs chapter 3. After that I thought maybe there is a better book than Proverbs. So I read on. Then I came to Song of Solomon. I read it with quite some confusion. It wasn't as good as the other books, I didn't know why. So I bought a commentary on it. George Burrowes commentary on the Song of Solomon.
In the commentary I found that George and other saw the book as illustrating God's love to the Church. And not only illustrating it but displaying the Love of Christ better than any other book. This caught my attention big time, because I was having a burning desire for a closer relationship with God and desperately learning about His Love so that I could Love God. You see I had hated Him for so long that God used that old hard heart to spur me on in loving Him. I so much did not want to hate God anymore that I was on fire to learn to Love Him as much and as fast as possible. So here was a book that would help me do that. So I landed on the Song of Solomon. I committed to learning as much of this book as possible.
I memorized the first chapter and would repeat it often throughout the day. I didn't know much of what I was repeating but it sure made me happier and on fire for God. I grew so fast repeating the first chapter over and over again all day, like a dozen times a day at least. It felt so good and I never found any other book that caused me to weep so much. I would often weep everyday just reading it. I was to immature to know what was going on. Even though it hurt to weep so much, I felt like my heart was being cleansed from the filth that was in it by repeating it over and over again so I did. As I read the commentary I understood more and more. What God was doing in me through the Song was greater and faster than any other portion of Scripture so I tended to stay there often. I was so excited about God that I thought it funny that other's in church weren't the same way. Some where happy but it seemed most of them didn't seem to care much about God. They would talk about work, football the weather. The only thing I wanted to talk about was Jesus and God and how can I grow closer to Him.
About this time there was a mission trip to Ireland.
I started to have convictions that I should try to find Bob and witness to him. I kept praying for him but how could he be saved if he hadn't heard the Gospel that has power unto salvation. So I asked family if they had any information. Like me before, my family hated him and thought he deserved hell. After some time I got his name but no location or phone number. Either they didn't know where he was or didn't want to tell me. I prayed some more and then started to get stronger convictions to do something about finding Bob.
So I went on the internet and typed in "his name and child molestation sex offender court" thinking that some court record would have some info leading to where I may find him" I even talked to a private eye and he couldn't help. So I googled some key words and spent hours each day looking through each page. I believed it was God's will for me to witness to Bob. I wanted him to be saved. Really bad. So much so that I thought God would save Bob if I were to witness to him. So I didn't stop searching for him. I kept my computer on each day and went page by page. It took two years to go through about 15,000 pages but I found someone who matched his name in a prison for molesting his grandchildren. I wrote the prison and he wrote back. All kinds of emotions went through my body when I saw his letter from the jail. I didn't open it right away but two hours later God gave me enough courage to face my fears again and I opened the letter. He admitted to being the one who molested me. We wrote back and forth I told him I was angry before but now I was saved and that I loved him and believed God wanted me to talk to him. He read my letters over and over again. I shared the gospel in each one.
I got mad at Bob 2x. Once he said that he love me. I got really angry with him. He didn't love me. That night it was hard to love Bob, I had to call a friend to pray for me to repent, after he prayed I felt greater love for Bob. Then I wrote him back saying "I'm sorry but you can't say that you loved me. You did not love me you lusted after me." He admitted he didn't love as he should have and admitted that it was lust and sinful. Finally some conviction. Yet I only thought he was saying that because I was being nice to him. All his family had left him and he said I was the only "friend" he had.
Wether or not it was true Bob said that he had cancer in his arm and that the help the prison gives was not enough and if he had money he could see a different doctor and get help. I sent him some money and since I was in jail before I knew what it was like to be in there without money, so I sent him money.
About 4-5 months in the economy went down, it was 2008. Work was hard. I still sent him money and I had to work harder. This was a really good lesson for me because I had to "work hard for the benefit of someone who did not deserve it." This was one of the greatest blessing ever because I realized with great certainty that Jesus was in me. This is what Jesus did. Jesus worked his whole life for me and I didn't deserve it!! Christ was in me! This was one of the best feelings ever and it put me in worship for months.
Then a mission trip to Croatia.
Each time I had to leave my business and amazing as it is I was completely okay each time. I am a self employed personal trainer and it is normally absurd to just leave and start over, but each time I had enough work within 2 weeks of coming back. This is a flat out miracle. I trusted God to provide and he did. How many people can start up a business in 2 weeks. Only with the help of God. God was teaching me early on in my walk that as long as I did what He wanted me to do then I had nothing to worry about.
About 3 years saved now.
I Taught the 4 year old's at church Sunday morning for 10 years.
Left my business 2x for mission trips and God miraculously provided when I came back.
I taught 5 x a week plus held a job.
Sunday morning to the kids.
Sunday night with the 5th graders
Friday afternoons at Good News Clubs. Sponsored by Child Evangelism Fellowship.
Friday Nights with the Kids teaching through Pilgrims Progress, I did this 2x
Teaching Monday afternoons at a nursing home. I taught through the Song of Songs once then John, then Romans then back to the Song again! I love the Song of Songs.
I grew up hating God for what happened to me, and now I love Him because He first loved me. My passion is for children to grow up loving God and not hating Him.
My other passion which has become ever greater is to help others see the Love of Christ to His Church in the Song of Songs!!
I would love to help you, just let me know and I will lead you and pray for you.
God demonstrates His love to us in sending His one and only Son to suffer in our place, taking our sins upon Himself so that whoever believes they get to heaven because of what He did for us will not perish but have everlasting life.